GRANDMA’S
HANDS
Grandma, some ninety plus years, sat feebly on the patio
bench. She didn't move, just sat with her head down staring at her hands.
When I sat down beside her she didn't acknowledge my presence and the longer I
sat I wondered if she was OK.
Finally, not really wanting to disturb her but wanting to
check on her at the same time, I asked her if she was OK. She raised her head
and looked at me and smiled. 'Yes, I'm fine, thank you for asking,' she said in
a clear strong voice.
'I didn't mean to disturb you, grandma, but you were just
sitting here staring at your hands and I wanted to make sure you were OK,' I
explained to her.
'Have you ever looked at your hands,' she asked. 'I mean
really looked at your hands?'
I slowly opened my hands and stared down at them. I turned
them over, palms up and then palms down. No, I guess I had never really looked
at my hands as I tried to figure out the point she was making.
Grandma smiled and related this story:
'Stop and think for a moment about the hands you have, how they have served you
well throughout your years. These hands, though wrinkled, shriveled and weak
have been the tools I have used all my life to reach out and grab and embrace
life. 'They braced and caught my fall when as a toddler I crashed upon the
floor.
They put food in my mouth and clothes on my back. As
a child my mother taught me to fold them in prayer.
They tied my shoes and pulled on my boots.
They held my husband, and wiped my tears when he went
off to war. They have been dirty, scraped and raw, swollen and bent. They were
uneasy and clumsy when I tried to hold my newborn son.
Decorated with my wedding band they showed the world that
I was married and loved by someone special.
They wrote my letters to him and trembled and shook when I
buried my parents and spouse.’ They have held my children and grandchildren, consoled neighbors, and shook in fists of
anger when I didn't understand.'
'They have covered my face, combed my hair, and washed and
cleansed the rest of my body. They
have been sticky and wet, bent and broken, dried and raw. And to this day when
not much of anything else of me works real well these hands hold me up, lay me down,
and again continue to fold in prayer.'
'These hands are the mark of where I've been and the
ruggedness of life. But more importantly
it will be these hands that God will reach out and take when he comes
to take me home. And with my hands He will lift me to His side and there I
will use these hands to touch the face of Christ.'
I will never look at my hands the same again.
When my hands are hurt or sore or when I stroke the face of my children and
husband I think of Grandma. I know she has been stroked and caressed and held
by the hands of God.
I, too, want to touch the face of God and feel His hands
upon my face.
When you receive this, say a prayer for the person who
sent it to you and watch God's answer to prayer work in your life. Let's
continue praying for one another. Passing this on to anyone you consider a
friend will bless you both. Passing
this on to one not yet considered a friend is something Christ would do.
Peace, joy and happiness to you in the New Year.