We all
know or knew someone like this!!
One day, when I was a freshman in high school, I saw a kid from my class was
walking home from school. His name was
Kyle. It looked like he was carrying all
of his books. I thought to myself,
"Why would anyone bring home all his books on a Friday? He must really be a nerd."
I had quite a weekend planned (parties and a football game with my friends
tomorrow afternoon), so I shrugged my shoulders and went on. As I was walking, I saw a bunch of kids
running toward him. They ran at him,
knocking all his books out of his arms and tripping him so he landed in the
dirt. His glasses went flying, and I saw
them land in the grass about ten feet from him. He looked up and I saw this terrible sadness
in his eyes
My heart went out to him. So, I jogged over to him and as he crawled around
looking for his glasses, and I saw a tear in his eye. As I handed him his glasses, I said,
"Those guys are jerks. They really should get lives.”
" He looked at me and said, "Hey thanks!" There was a big smile
on his face. It was one of those smiles
that showed real gratitude.
I helped him pick up his books, and asked him where he lived. As it turned out, he lived near me, so I asked
him why I had never seen him before. He
said he had gone to private school before now.
I would have never hung out with a private school kid before. We talked all the way home, and I carried some
of his books. He turned out to be a
pretty cool kid. I asked him if he
wanted to play a little football with my friends. He said yes.
We hung out all weekend and the more I got to know Kyle, the more I liked him,
and my friends thought the same of him. Monday
morning came, and there was Kyle with the huge stack of books again. I stopped him and said, "Boy, you are
gonna really build some serious muscles with this pile of books everyday!"
He just laughed and handed me half the books.
Over the next four years, Kyle and I became best friends. When we were seniors,
we began to think about college. Kyle decided on
Kyle
was valedictorian of our class. I teased
him all the time about being a nerd. He
had to prepare a speech for graduation. I
was so glad it wasn't me having to get up there and speak Graduation day, I saw
Kyle. H e looked great. He was one of those guys that really found
himself during high school. He filled
out and actually looked good in glasses.
He had more dates than I had and all the girls loved him. Boy, sometimes I was jealous. Today was one of those days.
I could see that he was nervous about his speech. So, I smacked him on the back and said,
"Hey, big guy, you'll be great!" He looked at me with one of those looks (the
really grateful one) and smiled. "
Thanks," he said.
As he started his speech, he cleared his throat, and began "Graduation is
a time to thank those who helped you make it through those tough years. Your parents, your teachers, your siblings,
maybe a coach...but mostly your friends... I am here to tell all of you that being a
friend to someone is the best gift you can give them. I am going to tell you a story."
I just looked at my friend with disbelief as he told the story of the first day
we met. He had planned to kill himself over the weekend. He talked of how he had cleaned out his locker
so his Mom wouldn't have to do it later and was carrying his stuff home.
He looked hard at me and gave me a little smile. "Thankfully, I was saved.
My friend saved me from doing the unspeakable."
I heard the gasp go through the crowd as this handsome, popular boy told us all
about his weakest moment. I saw his Mom
and dad looking at me and smiling that same grateful smile. Not until that moment did I realize its depth.
Never underestimate the power of your actions. With one small gesture you can
change a person's life. For better or
for worse. God puts us all in each
other's lives to impact one another in some way. Look for God in others.
You now have two choices, you can:
1) Pass this on to your friends or
2) Delete it and act like it didn't touch your heart.
As you can see, I took choice number 1.
"Friends are angels who lift us to our feet when our wings have trouble
remembering how to fly."
There is no beginning or end. Yesterday is history.
Tomorrow is mystery.
Today is a gift.